Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Your Older Child Is Asking About Quitting Music Lessons



Here's a conundrum for you.  Your older child that has been studying a musical instrument for five or more years is asking to stop taking music lessons.  This can be a learning experience for you and a teachable moment for your child.  Please handle the conversation with your child carefully. 

Your unique family dynamics will dictate how you make your decision but please ask yourself these questions:
  • will your child be sad that he/she didn't continue lessons as he/she becomes an adult?
  • is there anything you can do to motivate your child?
  • what are your child's feelings about lessons?
  • will your child see this experience as a way to quit other endeavors in life?
Your next step should be calling the music teacher for advice.